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Pets vs Partners: Who Do People Really Prefer?

A new ePaws survey finds many UK adults in relationships prefer pets to partners, with 51% choosing a countryside walk with their pet and 23% saying they would pick the pet in an ultimatum. Women showed particularly strong loyalty, with 62% more lenient with pets.

Pets vs Partners: Who Do People Really Prefer?
Jenny Prowse

Jenny Prowse

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April 2, 2026
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Pets vs Partners: Who Do People Really Prefer?

For Many, Pets Come Out on Top Over Partners

New survey reveals more people turn to pets than partners for walks, cuddles, and emotional support.

New research from ePaws finds that for many in relationships, pets, not partners, are their preferred companions for everyday joy, comfort, and connection.

A nationwide survey of UK adults in relationships who own at least one pet reveals just how deep that bond runs:
• 51% said they'd rather take their pet for a countryside walk than their partner.
• 40% preferred cuddling on the sofa with their furry friend instead of their other half.
• 51% believe pets provide better mental health benefits than partners.
• 23% admit that if faced with the ultimatum "it's me or the pet," they'd choose the pet.

Women, in particular, are showing stronger loyalty to their four-legged companions:
• 62% of women say they're more lenient with their pet than their partner (compared to 52% of men).
• 57% of women believe pets boost mental wellbeing more than partners do (compared to 45% men).
• 61% prefer taking their pets for a walk in the park instead of going with their partner (compared to 47% men).

It's not just walks and cuddles; pets now play a central role in how people manage stress, joy, and self-care. More than half of those surveyed (51%) said pets have a stronger impact on emotional well-being than partners, while a third (33%) confessed their pets make them happier than their significant other.

The research also highlights differences between pet owners:
• Dog lovers are the most devoted, 65% prefer walking in the park with their dog than their partner, and 63% would choose a countryside stroll with their dog over their significant other.
• Cat owners may be more divided, 33% prefer watching TV with their cat rather than their partner, and 38% said they simply couldn't choose between the two when thinking about who they would rather live without.

"Pets aren't just companions; they've become emotional anchors in many people's lives," said Simon Joseph, CEO of ePaws. "From cuddles to mental health support, they're proving to be Britain's most loyal partners."

The full report and supporting data are available at: https://epaws.co.uk/blogs/news/pets-vs-partners-who-do-people-really-prefer

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